Is it morally okay that societal expectations only blame working women for not taking care of the family enough? On the other hand, gives zero value to housewives/homemakers who devote their whole lives to raising kids and taking care of ...
I am 28 years old today and I got married last month. When starting my new life, I came across new people, new routines, and new bodily changes. While dealing with these new things, I remembered the little things my grandparents had instilled in me or taught me since childhood. From being patient whRead more
I am 28 years old today and I got married last month. When starting my new life, I came across new people, new routines, and new bodily changes. While dealing with these new things, I remembered the little things my grandparents had instilled in me or taught me since childhood. From being patient when dealing with people to home remedies when I fell sick. And most important of all, inculcating spirituality in me helped me a lot during difficult times. While growing up though, like most children, I had my apprehensions and anxieties about people.
However, as a teenager, I used to sometimes feel irritated when they advised me constantly about certain things. But when I look back, at every piece of advice I used to get irritated with or every time I turned a deaf ear to whatever they said, I now realize what a huge mistake it was!
But I am eternally grateful for all the time I have spent with them and all the advice I have received from their wisdom over all these years.
Today, when I see my father-in-law lovingly feeding my niece or sacrificing his sleep because she wants to play with him, I now realize how my grandparents used to feel while spending time with me.
Though I have had the privilege of spending time with them and learning about my culture, food, heritage, and overall life I wish I would somehow just get a little time more with them.
I strongly feel children in nuclear families miss out on all the wonderful stories, age-old pearls of wisdom, and little nitty gritty that dada-dadi and nana-nani have to offer!
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The concept of "hustle over heart" in Indian society reflects a stark reality where the pursuit of material success often overshadows emotional and social considerations. In a rapidly developing economy like India's, there is immense pressure on individuals to excel professionally, achieve fiRead more
The concept of “hustle over heart” in Indian society reflects a stark reality where the pursuit of material success often overshadows emotional and social considerations. In a rapidly developing economy like India’s, there is immense pressure on individuals to excel professionally, achieve financial stability, and elevate social status. This drive often prioritizes competitive ambition over personal fulfillment and empathetic connections.
The education system emphasizes academic achievements and career-oriented goals, leading many to prioritize lucrative professions over their passions or societal welfare. As a result, traditional values of community, family bonds, and emotional well-being can sometimes take a back seat to individual aspirations and economic success.
Moreover, societal expectations and peer pressure further reinforce this ethos of relentless ambition, perpetuating a cycle where individuals feel compelled to prioritize external markers of success over internal satisfaction. This dynamic can contribute to a culture where people may suppress their true feelings or neglect meaningful relationships in pursuit of professional recognition and financial gain.
Addressing this imbalance requires a nuanced approach that values holistic development, emotional intelligence, and collective well-being alongside economic progress. Balancing hustle with heart means fostering a society where individuals can pursue their ambitions while maintaining empathy, emotional resilience, and a sense of community—a harmonious blend that enriches both personal lives and societal fabric
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