How do I deal with my family’s disappointment if my results are not good?
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The real question is how you deal with your own disappointment. If you are not happy with your result, only then other’s opinions will matter. To deal with it you have to do a number of things.
1 Accept your result- Try to accept that your result isn’t what you were hoping for.
2 Realise and Understand – Understand what made you get a bad result. Was it your friends or was it your mobile ? Was it because you were too lazy or that you just don’t like the subjects you are studying ? Was it because your were pursuing your passion ? This step is super important as it will help you to understand where exactly were you lacking.
3 Reflect – Once you have understood your strengths and weaknesses, reflect on them. Try to identify solutions to change your habits in this step and let go of the past. Writing all this down is also very helpful as you not only have to change your habits, but also your attitude towards studying.
4 Get to work – Here comes the actual deal. Now that you have identified everything, all you need to do is focus on changing your habits. Try to target one habit at a time and work on it. It’s a really efficient method. All you can do now is focus on you next exam and work for it.
Remember that changing yourself is a gradual process and does not occur overnight. It will take time, but you will improve only if you are willing to work for it. You will be able to deal with your disappointment only after you get to work. Just thinking and stressing about it will not relieve you. So work ahead with renewed vigor and see the infinite possibilities ahead of you.
Now that you know that you have dealt with you own disappointment, it’s time to come back to family.
First of all, try and understand what disappointed them. Was it only your result or was it your habits too? See the reason why they were disappointed. The cause of their concern can be your career or future aspirations. Then once you are able to see from their perspective, tell them about your own perspective. Reach out to them and tell them what exactly caused a bad result. No lies here. Then tell them how you plan on improving and reassure them about your next result. Because they are your family, they will understand you and help and support you.
Dealing with family disappointment due to poor academic results can be challenging, but there are constructive ways to manage the situation:
Remember, your worth is not solely determined by your academic results. With determination and support, you can overcome challenges and achieve your goals.
Dealing with family disappointment due to poor academic results can be challenging, but there are constructive ways to manage the situation:
Remember, your worth is not solely determined by your academic results. With determination and support, you can overcome challenges and achieve your goals.