People often express several common regrets about not spending enough time with their grandparents:

1. Missed Stories and Wisdom:- Grandparents often have unique life experiences and wisdom to share, which can provide valuable insights and guidance. People regret not hearing their stories or learning from their wisdom while they had the chance.

2. Lost Opportunities:- Spending time with grandparents can create cherished memories and opportunities for bonding that can’t be recreated once they are gone. People regret missing out on these moments that could have strengthened their relationship.

3. Unasked Questions:- As people grow older, they often have questions about family history, personal experiences, or advice. Not spending enough time with grandparents means missing the chance to ask these questions and receive meaningful answers.

4. Family Connections:-  Grandparents are often the link to family history and traditions. Not spending time with them can result in feeling disconnected from family roots and cultural heritage.

As for why we tend to appreciate loved ones more after they’re gone, it often comes down to taking people and time for granted. When someone is present in our lives, we may assume there will always be another opportunity to connect or express our appreciation. However, when they pass away, we realize the finality of missed chances and the importance of the moments we did have with them. This realization often leads to feelings of regret for not having valued those moments more when we had them.