Surprisingly, the answer lies within the question. When one is striving for perfection, it’s inevitable truth that they’d definitely be conquered by fear of failure and Non-acceptance. Here’s why.

We are familiar with the term ‘Makeup’, which is no less than what it does ‘make up’ , I hope you find the difference. It’s function itself is to hide flaws, which is very natural, universal and then, attain super artificial state ” Perfection ” Which is far from reality and originality. Here the subject is not makeup but it’s about ones incapability to accept their true self. It’s a paradox that one fails to understand that every creature in the universe is built in such a way to function according to their unique characteristics and qualities. And to speak about fear of failure and Non-acceptance, it’s a bitter truth that it all starts from insecurities that one possess. When an individual fails to accept his/her flaws, they can never make progress. It’s very natural to feel left out Initially, because you are very conscious about your insecurities.

Then, how to get rid of it?                                   First, accept your feelings and whatever you feel need not be the only truth, because you can make improvements by time given. Then take responsibilities of yours on yourself. Invest your time and energy on improving yourself by learning skills that would enhance the quality of your work and life. Yes, you are an Asset! , unless you don’t understand this, you’ll be under dilemma for long time. Working on yourself requires a lot of labour. It all starts from what you prioritize in your life. Ask yourself what is truly important, and what actually matters to you. Once you give a thought about this, you’d definitely find the answer.

We should not fail to understand that “Anything that’s part of nature or creation of nature, can never be perfect but it can be beautiful in it’s own way. And anything that’s perfect is never natural, real, original”. Everyone are designed to be different, to function the events of life in their own ways. Trying to be photocopy of someone else is an insult to the own self and that’s what pushes one to seek validation and acceptance which is of no use. It’s fine to be different!