Emotional intelligence is not inherently about exploiting others; rather, it is the intentions and actions of individuals that determine whether it is used in a manipulative or exploitative manner. That being said, there are individuals who would leverage it against others to fulfill their own objectives. 

What sets these individuals apart from others in our lives?

1.To manipulate, one may exaggerate facts and overemphasize specific points in order to induce fear and prompt action.

2.They may use flattery, excessive praise, or agree to small favors in order to later request larger ones.

3.These people deliberately raise their voice or display forceful body language to convey their frustration, aiming to manipulate your emotions.

Steps you can take to avoid such situations—

1.Pay attention to statements that hint at a lack of courage or seek to instill a fear of missing out.

2.Undoubtedly, giving brings about a greater sense of joy than receiving. Nonetheless, it is imperative to be aware of your boundaries. Do not hesitate to say no when it is the right decision.

There are people who improve their emotional intelligence for personal growth. Regrettably, there are people who utilize it for manipulative ends. This underscores the importance of honing your own emotional intelligence as a means of self-protection.