Simon De Beauvoir was a French philosopher and feminist. Beauvoir mentions this quote in her Magnum Opus book 'The 'Second Sex' published in 1949. The work discusses the myriad of women-centric issues, inspiring equality and liberation of women from the shackles of economic dependency. Beauvoir tracRead more
Simon De Beauvoir was a French philosopher and feminist. Beauvoir mentions this quote in her Magnum Opus book ‘The ‘Second Sex’ published in 1949. The work discusses the myriad of women-centric issues, inspiring equality and liberation of women from the shackles of economic dependency.
Beauvoir traces the status of women from beginning till modern times through the methods of historical materialism and research. This refers to the influence of social and economic conditions on shaping the history and fortunes of women. The statement stands as the most historic argument for challenging the patriarchal code. By claiming “One is not born a woman; one becomes a woman, she argues that a woman is not born; she is gradually shaped by social and cultural factors. Her upbringing in certain parameters leads her to the process of ‘becoming’ a woman. Women acquire their roles from men and other members of society; biology has no role in this. Hence, womanhood is something that is attained by a woman rather than something innate.
Beauvior’s stance also contributes to gender studies in questioning the construction of gender identity. The main issue lies in the social and physiological conditioning of women, which psychologically forces her to subscribe to her assigned ‘role’ as a woman.
Physiological and social conditioning, both classical and operant, leads to changes in behavioural alterations in one’s identity. A woman is conditioned by her physiology, by virtue of her ability to bear children and by society. This is determined by conglomeration of external and internal agents, such as her father and teacher, in her milieu. She is also conditioned by societal expectations, rules, and treatment by institutions in both favorable and unfavorable ways. The expectations of society, regulations, and the favorable and negative treatment she receives from institutional or structural entities all condition her. This obligation leads to internalization of patriarchy by women further enhancing female subjugation. In present times, where women have united in raising their voice against all kinds of patriarchal-structural violences, it stands as a relevant argument to decipher the process of women’s identity formation, who are now dismantling the traditional norms and standards.
Men can be better allies in the following ways: Being better listeners: Before attempting to problem solve from the outset, men should lend an open-minded, empathetic and receptive ear to those raising their voices so that they can understand each other’s issues. This opens one’s mind to the inherenRead more
Men can be better allies in the following ways:
- Being better listeners: Before attempting to problem solve from the outset, men should lend an open-minded, empathetic and receptive ear to those raising their voices so that they can understand each other’s issues. This opens one’s mind to the inherent privileges they were holding, and allows them to reflect on various issues deeply.
- Making small changes: In a country like India where unequal distributions of labour and power are often latent, small changes go a long way. For example, doing a share of housework with wives/mothers as a member of the household, not a helper. Other ways may be:
- When noticing snide remarks and misogynistic attitudes from other men, immediately countering them outright.
- Uplifting the women around them in daily life, not only in feminist circles but others as well.
- Engaging in intelligent discourse: Educating oneself about the various issues plaguing not only women but other minorities, and engaging in discussions with feminists who are actively working to better society. Through intelligent discourse, it becomes apparent that feminism is not “man-hating” as some say, but a movement against patriarchy, the removal of which benefits men also.
- Not viewing women as ‘other’: Women and men are indeed both from earth, and although differences exist, women are capable of everything men are capable of. Therefore, understand that although certain conditions must be altered for both the genders to function optimally, it is must for a balanced society.
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