Being vulnerable around is seen as a bad thing, we as humans need support and hope to survive. We have to choose to whom we can show our vulnerable self. We have family, friends and colleagues which help us during dark times, we also might know or meet some strangers which can help us during this period. Knowing when and to whom to open up to is very crucial. This brings us to the question that how we can identify such person’s presence in our lives. The best, fastest and the most noticeable way I personally tried and tested is to observe how a person treats someone who is below them in a tense and frustrated situation. For example, how a person treats his or her server at a restaurant when the server commits a mistake or how the person treats his or her blue-collar staff. These are a few ways to judge onto whom we can rely on and open up to.