If we’re talking about India, the reaction to a woman being raped by her husband is deeply influenced by societal norms and cultural perceptions of marriage. Generally, society tends to turn a blind eye to such issues, rooted in the belief that marital relations are private and should not be scrutinized by outsiders. Many people, particularly in conservative communities, may not even recognize marital rape as a valid concern, viewing it instead through the lens of marital rights and duties. This can lead to the woman being dismissed or even blamed for not fulfilling her “wifely” duties.

Support for the woman in such situations is often limited. She may face significant social stigma and pressure to maintain the façade of a happy marriage, regardless of the abuse she endures. Families and communities might urge her to stay silent to protect the family’s honor or avoid the shame associated with marital discord. This silence is further compounded by the lack of legal recognition and support for marital rape victims, leaving women feeling isolated and helpless.

However, there is a growing movement of activists, NGOs, and progressive individuals who advocate for the rights of these women. They strive to raise awareness and push for legal reforms to ensure that marital rape is recognized as a crime. Despite these efforts, societal change is slow, and deeply ingrained attitudes continue to favor the status quo, leaving many women without the support they desperately need. So the least one can do is be a little humane and empathetic towards them rather than victim blaming.