Love is not all of pain but it gives pain. Love is something special where two individuals who are born and brought up in a different society is bound together through marriage. When two such individuals live together with their unique personalities definitely there comes a cross thought. That futher becomes pain.

A child has numerous different thoughts than their parents. They argue and fight with their parents. Think of a different personality who is brought or met in your family suddenly. What kind of thoughts do you expect? No, it cannot be the same. It’s completely different and that’s where attractions happen.

You will not believe me when I say those different personalities love each other a lot. They can’t be separated. They fight, argue and even would be shut for days. But the love grows a lot. Love is definitely painful, and learning to love the pain is not the right option. Learn to accept the pain when it is.

Not all roads are same. It has bumps and pits. The same way when u can accept and love the happiness that the love gives why can’t you love the pain. Learning to accept both is the wise choice. It’s not all pain and all happiness. It’s a perfect blend of all emotions.

Love not when you can’t accept all the facets of emotions. Love not when you are not ready to accept the other person equally. Love is a blend of pain, happiness and love. It can’t be justified only with pain.