Yes, a person’s choices can be affected by the trauma they face in their family. When someone goes through difficult or painful experiences, like abuse or neglect, it can impact how they think, feel, and act. This can influence their decisions in relationships, work, and other parts of their life.

There is also something called generational trauma. This means that trauma can be passed down from parents and grandparents to their children. If earlier generations went through hard times like war, poverty, or discrimination, their experiences can affect their children and grandchildren. This can happen through behaviors, attitudes, and even changes in how their genes work.

For example, children of Holocaust survivors or those affected by colonialism may feel the impact of their ancestors’ trauma. This can influence their mental health, relationships, and choices in life.

So, both personal and generational trauma can significantly affect a person’s decisions and life path.